Facebook, myspace, twitter, dating sites are a multi-million dollar industry; it seems people are constantly reaching out. We live in a culture of networking. All it takes is a quick search and you can be in instant in contact with 100 people who have similar hopes, dreams, goals, or interests. However this easy access does not ease loneliness; instead it seems to increase the isolation. Cyber-relationships and social networking sites are making us lazy and depriving us of human contact. Basic interaction is rapidly becoming a lost art.
Brain injury often destroys long-standing relationships and networks. Not only has the survivor lost social skills, and friendships, but also even those without brain injury have problems forming relationships. It seems hopeless – everybody is lonely.
This pervasive lack of human contact in society is indeed tragic. However, this gaping hole in our culture works to your advantage. There is already a need. It is up to you to fill it.
Though there are countless negatives about brain injury it can help you approach life in new ways. It does take initiative, practice, and a little effort but meeting people really is easy. You just need to follow a few simple guidelines and you will find friends in no time!
I am super lucky that I became friends with such a fabulous gal(and it really was easy)!!
ReplyDeleteLove ya, (the girl in the pic)